50 Questions That Will Free Your Mind

These questions have no right or wrong answers.

Because sometimes asking the right questions is the answer. Via

  1. How old would you be if you didn’t know how old you are? 30
  2. Which is worse, failing or never trying? Never trying. I know failing sucks but I like the feeling of at least knowing I tried even if it did not work out for one reason or another.
  3. If life is so short, why do we do so many things we don’t like and like so many things we don’t do? Because it is easier to come up with excuses than to actually get off our but and do something.
  4. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? If you asked me this same question a year ago I would say yes but today i say no if I say something I do it. I carry through and make it happen maybe not overnight but I do get it done.
  5. What is the one thing you’d most like to change about the world? One thing mmmmm… I will say that I would want to change the world for children. I would want to take away all the pain they feel. I would take away all the starving babies, and the other things some lack. I would make sure all the children in the world have everything I need to reach all their dreams in life.
  6. If happiness was the national currency, what kind of work would make you rich? I would be a dog walker or open and animal shelter.
  7. Are you doing what you believe in, or are you settling for what you are doing? I am doing something I believe in.
  8. If the average human life span was 40 years, how would you live your life differently? I would have well let me not lie my life would probably be the same. Yes I could sit here and say I want it all different but no it would be the same.
  9. To what degree have you actually controlled the course your life has taken? I take full responsibility for my life.
  10. Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things? doing the right thing.
  11. You’re having lunch with three people you respect and admire.  They all start criticizing a close friend of yours, not knowing she is your friend.  The criticism is distasteful and unjustified.  What do you do? I ask them why and defend her.
  12. If you could offer a newborn child only one piece of advice, what would it be? No matter what happens in life good or bad remember the words, this to shall pass. No matter if it is good or bad everything passes so just remember that.
  13. Would you break the law to save a loved one? Yes
  14. Have you ever seen insanity where you later saw creativity? Yes
  15. What’s something you know you do differently than most people? Believe. I believe differently because I believe in the greater good of a person over the evil.
  16. How come the things that make you happy don’t make everyone happy? Because everyone is different and while pancakes make me happy it doesn’t mean it makes everyone happy.
  17. What one thing have you not done that you really want to do?  What’s holding you back? Look at the section titled The List. I have a 30 before 30 list and I would say now it would be time and economic but I am starting to work on one or 2 a month so I can finish by the time I am 30.  Before I would say I just well wasn’t sure what those things were and put off making myself happy.
  18. Are you holding onto something you need to let go of? I let go of the anger I have toward Mr. X but somewhere even with all the hurt and pain I have not been able to let go of a little bit of the love and while it sounds crazy to let go a little love but really it just makes me worry about someone who never worried about me. Love is sometimes evil in that way.
  19. If you had to move to a state or country besides the one you currently live in, where would you move and why? Brazil and I would start my own community.  A community focused on health, fitness, green living, peace and love.  Might see crazy but it would be heaven.
  20. Do you push the elevator button more than once?  Do you really believe it makes the elevator faster? No I don’t once will do just fine.
  21. Would you rather be a worried genius or a joyful simpleton? I am a worried genius and someday’s I want to simple and just happy but I don’t worry all the time and my brain is my best friend I would not trade it for anything.
  22. Why are you, you? wow. I am me because of my skin, hair, eyes, personality, flaws, and positives.
  23. Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend? Yes for the most part although I went through a patch when I wouldn’t be my friend in a million years.
  24. Which is worse, when a good friend moves away, or losing touch with a good friend who lives right near you? Lose touch with a good friend who lives right near you.
  25. What are you most grateful for? My boys TZDKK
  26. Would you rather lose all of your old memories, or never be able to make new ones? Never be able to make new ones.
  27. Is is possible to know the truth without challenging it first? No
  28. Has your greatest fear ever come true? No
  29. Do you remember that time 5 years ago when you were extremely upset?  Does it really matter now? I can’t even remember it now. Must not have been that important.
  30. What is your happiest childhood memory?  What makes it so special? I had such an amazing childhood so I would say it is to hard to choose it would have to be something with my siblings.
  31. At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive? Recent past would be anytime with Vlad he really has helped me feel alive and passionate about my own life again. Of course everyday at the gym I am passionate.
  32. If not now, then when?
  33. If you haven’t achieved it yet, what do you have to lose? Nothing
  34. Have you ever been with someone, said nothing, and walked away feeling like you just had the best conversation ever? Yes Omg I love that simple feeling so connected.
  35. Why do religions that support love cause so many wars? I have pondered this question a lot on my own before even seeing this on here. I have no idea I wish I did I suppose it has something to do with fighting for what you believe in or something along the lines of that silly notion. Personally it makes no sense to me at all, never will.
  36. Is it possible to know, without a doubt, what is good and what is evil? No I learned this recently that you can never know we can hope for the good but sometimes we just do not know the amount of evil that someone is capable of.
  37. If you just won a million dollars, would you quit your job? No
  38. Would you rather have less work to do, or more work you actually enjoy doing? More work that I actually like doing.
  39. Do you feel like you’ve lived this day a hundred times before? No
  40. When was the last time you marched into the dark with only the soft glow of an idea you strongly believed in? I can say I only did this truly once in my life and it was almost 2 years ago.
  41. If you knew that everyone you know was going to die tomorrow, who would you visit today? My boys (TZDKK)
  42. Would you be willing to reduce your life expectancy by 10 years to become extremely attractive or famous? No
  43. What is the difference between being alive and truly living? Being an alive is breathing, eating, sleeping, and not really enjoying life truly living is being able to enjoy life and do all the things you want to do in life.
  44. When is it time to stop calculating risk and rewards, and just go ahead and do what you know is right? Right now.
  45. If we learn from our mistakes, why are we always so afraid to make a mistake? Mistakes hurt they make you afraid but pain is good sometimes and you should always move on and try again from mistakes.
  46. What would you do differently if you knew nobody would judge you? Nothing I am me.
  47. When was the last time you noticed the sound of your own breathing? Yesterday I have pneumonia and well it makes me growl when I breathe lol.
  48. What do you love?  Have any of your recent actions openly expressed this love? I love my boys, I love V, the Celtics and my family.  I try not to sweat the small things and make sure they know I truly care about them. I tell them daily I love them and work toward being the best person I can be for them.
  49. In 5 years from now, will you remember what you did yesterday?  What about the day before that?  Or the day before that? I will remember I was working hard to reach my goals as for the moments probably not but I will think back and remember this period in my life.
  50. Decisions are being made right now.  The question is:  Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you? I use to have a big problems with this I lived my life worrying about other people. I use to worry about my parents the most and my mom mainly I would like to tell the world I have stopped doing that. My aunt told me once years ago I had to live for myself and it has taken me some time to say she was right. I am doing things for myself and to make me happy. I know my mom is not always going to agree but I know she just loves me so much she never wants me to feel pain and she just wants the best for me. As for my dad I have learned over the last few years that well first he is the best dad in the world and would support me no matter what I did as long as I am honest to him and safe. So all those things I worried about making decisions and living for the wrong people almost killed me and now I am in a much better place deciding things for myself.

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